Let's look at emotions and essential oils. Aromatherapy affects emotions by affecting the brain's limbic system, which is the center of our emotional response.
Of course, people respond differently, so the following aromatherapy emotion suggestions are just a place to start. The most effective use of aromatherapy for emotions comes through tailoring the use of essential oils for yourself.
Diffuse the essential oils or blend them with one tablespoon carrier oil for massage or bath.
Abandoned & bereft: 2 drops rose, 2 drops palmarosa, 1 drop neroli
Aggravated & pressured: 2 drops chamomile, 2 drops bergamot, 2 drops orange
Anxious desperation: 3 drops lavender and 2 drops rose
Bitter & brooding: 2 drops chamomile, 2 drops bergamot, 2 drops helichrysum
Burdened & humorless: 3 drops lemon, 2 drops jasmine
Chronic indecisiveness: 3 drops clary sage, 2 drops bergamot, 1 drop orange
Cold & joyless: 3 drops jasmine, 1 drop ylang ylang, 1 drop orange
Depressive self-neglect: 3 drops vetiver, 1 drop cardamom, 1 drop rose
Discouraged & dejected: 2 drops thyme, 2 drops rosemary
Frustrated & irritable: 2 drops orange, 2 drops bergamot, 2 drops chamomile
Frustrated, tense, & negative: 3 drops bergamot, 2 drops orange, 1 drop neroli
Hurt & bitter: 2 drops rose, 2 drops lavender, 1 drop helichrysum
Impatient & intolerant: 3 drops begamot, 2 drops lavender, 1 drop peppermint
Insecure & unyielding: 2 drops geranium, 2 drops patchouli
Lack of self-worth: 2 drops rose, 2 drops jasmine
Lonely & forlorn: 3 drops majoram, 2 drops rosemary, 1 drop myrrh
Low morale: 2 drops thyme, 2 drops pine, 2 drops cedarwood
Melancholic & distant: 3 drops clary sage, 2 drops rosemary, 1 drop thyme
Negative & pessimistic: 2 drops hyssop, 2 drops clary sage, 2 drops orange
Nervous and agitated: 3 drops lavender, 2 drops neroli, 1 drop bergamot
Nervous exhaustion: 2 drops geranium, 2 drops sandalwood, 1 drop jasmine
Obsessive overthinking: 4 drops sandalwood & 2 drops vetiver
Oppressive over-attachment: 2 drops frankincense, 2 drops myrrh, 2 drops cypress
Over-analytical and detached: 3 drops geranium, 2 drops sandalwood, 1 drop patchouli
Over-concern for others: 3 drops majoram, 1 drop chamomile, 1 drop palmarosa
Over-occupied with detail: 3 drops frankincense, 2 drops vetiver, 1 drop lemon
Persistent sense of loss: 4 drops cypress, 1 drop frankincense, 1 drop rose
Resistant to change: 3 drops cypress, 2 drops juniper, 1 drop benzoin
Restless & distracted: 3 drops frankincense, 2 drops geranium
Self-condemnation: 2 drops spikenard, 2 drops lavender, 1 drop rose
Sullen & wounded: 4 drops yarrow, 2 drops hyssop
Tense and exhausted: 3 drops clary sage, 2 drops cypress, 1 drop lavender
Touchy & defensive: 4 drops yarrow, 1 drop chamomile
Vague & indecisive: 3 drops clary sage, 2 drops rosemary
Vulnerable & unassertive: 3 drops pine, 2 drops thyme
Vulnerable & untrusting: 2 drops rose, 2 drops palmarosa, 1 drop lemon
Withdrawn and defeatist: 2 drops juniper, 2 drops thyme
Source:
Aromatherapy for Healing the Spirit: Restoring Emotional and Mental Balance with Essential Oils
. This book also shows you how to use the oils on acupressure points.
When needed, seek professional help for emotional problems.